Give Kindness for Your Birthday

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I’ve been asked at least 3 times if I was planning anything special for my ‘big five-oh’ birthday coming right up in a few days. Honestly, when first asked, I was at a complete loss; I hadn’t even thought about it. So I did think about, and … NOTHING came to mind. However, thanks to a post that was shared with me today from kindnessprojectoc on Instagram, I now have an idea and I am soooooooooooooooooo excited about it.


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She chose 41 one things acts of kindness to complete for her 41st birthday. HOW AWESOME IS THAT? I typed up the list as best I could:

  1. Pay for someone’s groceries
  2. Flowers for Meals on Wheels recipients
  3. Buy someone a birthday cake
  4. Send Venmo surprises
  5. 5-star reviews for small businesses
  6. Treats for Rancho Canada teachers
  7. Make birthday cake for foster kids
  8. Gratitude Dianes giveaway
  9. Pay for a families Christmas tree
  10. Pay for someone at Xclusive
  11. Free flowers for someone you love
  12. Donors Choose coffee cart
  13. Scratch Pies pay it forward
  14. Starbucks card giveaway
  15. Treats for “Zero Trash” volunteers
  16. Neighborhood trash pickup
  17. Treat someone at the movies
  18. Ronald McDonald house dinner
  19. Collect reusable bags for the pantry
  20. Donate food to the food pantry
  21. Donate socks for the homeless
  22. Pay for cakes at Three Dog bakery
  23. Hide scratchers
  24. Tape hot cocoa on Red Box
  25. Thank you notes to clients
  26. Hide a gift card in a book
  27. Hide lucky pennies
  28. Holiday wreath giveaway
  29. Candy collection for Camp Pendleton
  30. Donate costumes to OC Mission
  31. Thanksgiving food drive
  32. Snack bucket for mail carriers
  33. Make birdseed ornaments
  34. Hide happy rocks
  35. Hide quarters in vending machines
  36. ???
  37. Hide bubbles at the park
  38. Pay for someone in drive through
  39. Hand out coupons
  40. Gift ??? drinks
  41. Donate pumpkins to foster …

As you can see, there were a couple of things I couldn’t quite make out. Some items are very specific to organizations and places the poster knows, and some are seasonal (must be a late Fall or Early winter birthday). However, this is an amazing list of ideas to use as a jumping off point to customize for personal use, which is what I plan to do and post on my birthday.


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